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        FAQs 
          - General Questions about Mandir 
        Mandir 
        
          - What is a mandir?
 
          -  Why mandirs are needed?
 
          -  Why build majestic mandirs? 
            Why spend so much money for mandirs?
 
          -  Why not schools and hospitals, 
            but mandirs?
 
          -  Why so many mandirs?
 
          -  Why build mandirs outside 
            India?
 
          -  How do mandirs help society? 
            
 
          - What cultural importance 
            mandir has?
 
          -  How does the mandir help 
            to create and maintain faith in God?
 
          -  How does the mandir help 
            a family?
 
          -  How does the mandir help 
            individuals?
 
         
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                Q.1 
                   What is 
                  a mandir?  
                  A. Mandir is the 
                  Hindu name for a place of worship or prayer. Mandir is a Sanskrit 
                  word for where the mind becomes still and the soul floats freely 
                  to seek the source of life, peace, joy and comfort. For centuries, 
                  the mandir has remained a centre of life - a common community 
                  place where people forget their differences and voluntarily 
                  unite to serve society. 
                     
                     
                   
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                Q.2 
                 Why mandirs 
                are needed? 
                A. 
                Every religion in its own tradition builds houses of worship. 
                It is the mandir that fuels our faith in God, strengthen our society 
                and teach us to trust one another and to become trustworthy. Schools 
                will educate the mind, but who will educate the soul? Hospitals 
                will mend a broken arm, but who will mend a broken heart? Cinemas 
                and arcades will excite the mind but where will one go for peace 
                of mind? Mandir is a centre for learning about man, nature and 
                God. It is where ethics and values are reinforced. It is where 
                people celebrate festivals and seek shelter in sad times. It is 
                where talents in various arts - music, literature and sculpture 
                - are offered in the service of God.  
                  
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                Q.3 
                 Why build majestic mandirs? 
                Why spend so much money for mandirs?  
                A. When 
                buying a house for oneself and one’s family, one only requires 
                a one room square concrete box that has enough floor space to 
                sleep on. Yet, in reality, we spend weeks and months searching 
                for that perfect house that has the perfect color, perfect style, 
                perfect landscaping and perfect interior. Often, people spend 
                years saving up money and making plans for their dream house. 
                For ourselves and our loved ones, no cost or effort is spared 
                in our quest for the perfect home. 
                 
                Then should it to be so surprising that those who love God would 
                spare no effort or cost to make the perfect house for God? This 
                has been the sentiment of Hindus since the time the ancient seers 
                wrote the Shilpa Shastras that specified the proper methods of 
                construction for elaborate mandirs. But the construction of the 
                mandir itself was the effect of devotion to God. So, the elaborate 
                features and exquisite carvings of the mandir were simply the 
                physical embodiments of devotion of the devotees who constructed 
                the mandir.  
                The government of every country spends millions of dollars on 
                public monuments that have no function other then to be looked 
                at and admired for their architecture. The money to construct 
                such public monuments comes directly from the taxpayers. Yet, 
                such massive expenditure on public monuments is accepted and appreciated 
                by all. The reason is that simply through their architecture and 
                symbolism, such public monuments promote pride in one’s 
                country and its values, and thus spread a beneficial social message. 
                In the same way that the architecture of public monuments, and 
                for that matter, all architecture promotes a message, the architecture 
                of a mandir also promotes a message that is spiritually and socially 
                beneficial. The architecture of the mandir evokes feelings of 
                purity, devotional fervor, faith, wonder at the splendor of God, 
                and pride in one’s culture.  
                Moreover, the money spent on mandirs does not come from public 
                coffers, but solely from the donations of devotees who desire 
                to express their devotion to God through the mandir. If society 
                admires wealthy people for the massive mansions and palaces they 
                construct to serve their own selfish needs, should not society 
                admire even more, those people from all backgrounds who selflessly 
                donate to the mandir for the socially beneficial message the mandir’s 
                architecture promotes. 
                 
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              Q.4 
                Why not school and 
                hospitals, but mandirs? 
                A. Hospitals, schools, 
                and mandirs each play their respective essential roles in maintaining 
                society’s physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.  
                A hospital is necessary to treat the ill and wounded. A school 
                is necessary to educate the mind of the individual so that he 
                or she may become a successful and productive member of society. 
                However, neither the school nor the hospital can provide the social, 
                cultural, and spiritual benefits given by a mandir.  
                A school can give information, but it does not teach values. Perhaps 
                we should think about the following questions: Why is it that 
                so many social workers are faced with an ever increasing rate 
                of teenage pregnancies? Why do so many schools employ metal detectors 
                as security measures? Why is it that students attending the finest 
                universities in the world are arrested for drinking and driving? 
                A school will educate the mind, but unfortunately, it cannot educate 
                the soul.  
                A hospital can extend life but it cannot teach a person how to 
                live life. What are the success rates of smoking cessation or 
                alcohol abuse clinics? Patients suffer from lung cancer or liver 
                cirrhosis but they continue to consume nicotine and tobacco or 
                abuse alcohol. A criminal is treated for a gunshot wound. But, 
                after recovering he or she still remains a criminal. A hospital 
                can mend a broken arm, but unfortunately, it cannot mend a broken 
                heart.  
                Similarly, a mandir on its own cannot effectively fulfill the 
                purposes and roles attributed to either a school or a hospital. 
                However, a mandir can fulfill the deep necessity for spirituality 
                in today’s society.  
                Carl G. Jung, an eminent psychotherapist goes as far as saying, 
                “For the past thirty years people from all over the developed 
                world have come to me for advice. From amongst these people there 
                has not been one patient above the age of 35 whose illness could 
                not be cured by faith in religion. And there has not been a single 
                patient who has disbelieved religion and been cured!” 
                Swami Vivekanand, has said, “The greatest source of strength 
                for any society is its faith in God. The day it renounces such 
                faith will be the day that society begins to die.”  
                A mandir cultivates and sustains such devout faith in God. In 
                doing so, it teaches the individual to live life virtuously. It 
                teaches the individual to distinguish right from wrong. It molds 
                the character of the individual and teaches one to live life in 
                such a way that one does not harm one’s own self or society. 
                 
                Therefore, mandirs, hospitals, and schools all have their respective 
                and essential roles in society. The need for mandirs is just as 
                visible as the need for schools and hospitals in society.  
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               Q.5 Why 
                so many mandirs? 
                A.  Suppose 
                that one were away from home and visiting a foreign country. Suppose 
                that at this time one were to fall ill. One’s initial response 
                would be to find a hospital and seek medical treatment. However, 
                suppose that one were to discover that there is only one hospital 
                in the city. Not only one hospital in the city, but just one hospital 
                in the state. Not only just one hospital in the state, but just 
                one hospital in the entire country. How helpful would it be to 
                go to that hospital and stand in a line of hundreds if not thousands 
                of people? And, how helpful would it be to have to drive over 
                2-3 hours to reach that hospital?  
                Similarly, mandirs serve the purpose of a spiritual hospital. 
                They heal the diseases of the soul and nurture the soul on the 
                spiritual path. Therefore, many mandirs are built to ensure easier 
                accessibility to the individual. The easier the access that the 
                individual has to a mandir, the more inclined that individual 
                will be to go to a mandir and reap its social, cultural, and spiritual 
                benefits. 
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              Q.6 
                Why build mandirs outside 
                India?  
                A. For countless 
                generations Hindu values, customs and traditions have provided 
                man happiness and stability in his social, personal and spiritual 
                life. As Hindus migrate throughout the world in search of greater 
                economic opportunity, it is important that they do not lose this 
                source of stability and peace due to lack of contact with their 
                cultural heritage. Throughout the world, emigrants and, more significantly, 
                their future generations have been able to maintain contact with 
                their priceless cultural heritage through mandirs. Mandirs outside 
                of India have provided emigrants an essential place to keep in 
                touch with Hindu customs and traditions. 
                For second generation Hindus, the mandir has often been the place 
                where they have been introduced to such Hindu customs as the Hindu 
                diet, Hindu rites and rituals, Hindu dress, Hindu cultural ceremonies 
                and Hindu spirituality. Regular exposure to these customs and 
                traditions in the mandir has helped second generation Hindus understand 
                and appreciate their cultural heritage. This has helped them develop 
                pride in themselves and their cultural heritage and avoid the 
                psychologically destructive feelings of inferiority and isolation 
                that often come from being a part of a very small, misunderstood 
                minority. Pramukh Swami Maharaj has often said that "wherever 
                one goes, one should keep four aspects of our culture firmly rooted 
                in our life: our diet, our language, our dress, and our devotion." 
                 
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                 Q.7 
                   How do mandirs help 
                  society? 
                  A. 
                  Just as a mandir plays a vital role 
                  in uplifting society spiritually and culturally, it also offers 
                  various social benefits. The mandir has both a direct and indirect 
                  influence on society. 
                   
                  Direct Influence: 
                  The social influence of the mandir can be seen directly through 
                  its role as a host for a variety of humanitarian activities. 
                   
                  The mandir is intertwined in each and every step of these activities. 
                  It is the mandir campus which serves as the site for the activities 
                  to be organized, launched and managed. It is the follower who 
                  comes to the mandir that lends a helping hand in each and every 
                  project. It is the resources of the mandir, its followers and 
                  its well-wishers that are used to see each project through. 
                  Historically, mandirs have not just remained centers of worship, 
                  but rather, have evolved into vast, extensive complexes encompassing 
                  many roles to serve the special needs of society. In addition 
                  to their pivotal function in religious worship, mandirs have 
                  been a place where pilgrims and the poor have turned to for 
                  food in times of need or during natural disaster. 
                    
                   
                  Today, BAPS has over 500 mandirs worldwide which play the role 
                  of regional centers for humanitarian activities in the form 
                  of anti-addiction, anti-dowry, family bonding, and literacy 
                  campaigns. They also serve as regional centers of food and clothing 
                  distribution, and supplies distribution during famines, floods, 
                  earthquakes, cyclones, plague outbreaks, terrorist attacks, 
                  or other times of disaster. BAPS is well known for its relief 
                  work throughout the world. In natural calamities, BAPS volunteers 
                  are among the first to arrive and the last to leave. In addition, 
                  23 BAPS educational institutes educate over 6,000 students annually. 
                  170,000 patients are treated at BAPS medical institutions. 209 
                  tribal villages have been freed from addictions, superstition, 
                  and poverty. However, all of these and many more such social 
                  activities, have their direct roots at a mandir. 
                  Indirect Influence:  
                  Some social roles played by the mandir are not as noticeable 
                  as described thus far. These roles become more apparent if we 
                  examine the fundamental element of social uplift. 
                    
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              Q.8 
                 What cultural 
                importance does the mandir have?  
                A. Historically, 
                the mandir was a center for intellectual and artistic life. For 
                example, 
                throughout the history of Hindu civilization, mandirs have been 
                the most significant patrons of architecture, sculpture and painting. 
                The greatest architectural projects, the greatest sculptures and 
                paintings of every age have been associated with the construction 
                of mandirs. 
                Moreover, mandirs were also great patrons of the performing arts. 
                Mandirs supported the performance and teaching of devotional vocal 
                and instrumental music. Mandirs also promoted a tradition of devotional 
                dance. These traditions of music and dance were developed in the 
                mandir and spread out into the wider culture. 
                In addition to being a patron of the arts, the mandir was the 
                place where the public was routinely exposed to the arts. The 
                mandir was universally accessible. People from all backgrounds 
                and all places came to the mandir. There they experienced its 
                architecture, sculpture, painting, music and dance. It is through 
                this exposure to the arts at the mandir, that the artistic culture 
                of India became strongly rooted in the public’s mind. The 
                permanence of the mandir ensured that this artistic culture was 
                sustained in the public’s mind through generations. 
                In this way, through the ages, mandirs kept alive the highly-skilled 
                artistic traditions of India. Without the mandir’s patronage, 
                these priceless artistic traditions such as traditional stone-carving, 
                traditional architecture and Hindu classical music would not be 
                available for the world to appreciate today.  
                 
                Mandir: Preserver of Scriptural Traditions  
                Hinduism has a vast ocean of scriptures that illuminate every 
                facet of human endeavor imaginable. But, most of these scriptures 
                were accessible only to the learned few due to language and availability 
                issues. However, it was through the mandirs, where the scriptures 
                were regularly read and discoursed upon, that the mass population 
                was given free and regular access to the stories, the epics, and 
                the scriptural tradition that was the foundation of their culture. 
                Thus, historically the mandir universalized the knowledge of the 
                scriptures by making that knowledge accessible to everyone. 
                 
                Mandirs: Preserver of Language  
                Language is the key to culture. It is the key to unlocking the 
                history and teachings that have been preserved in the scriptures. 
                The death of a language such as Sanskrit, is equivalent to the 
                loss of thousands of years of human experience that has been recorded 
                in scriptures and books written in Sanskrit. Mandirs have preserved 
                the knowledge of Sanskrit throughout history through the establishment 
                of pathshalas (teaching centers) where the pupils learn Sanskrit 
                and the scriptures. From here they go on to teach it to others. 
                The fact that Bhagwan Swaminarayan has given this commandment 
                in His Shikshapatri illustrates how even the scriptures have indicated 
                the propagation of languages and learning as an important role 
                for mandirs. The mandir’s role in the teaching of languages 
                such as Sanskrit and, in mandirs outside of India, Gujarati and 
                Hindi, continues today. 
                 
                Mandirs: Role in cultural life today  
                The cultural roles that mandirs have played throughout history 
                are being continued in today’s mandirs. In addition, today’s 
                mandirs have also risen to the challenge of promoting and protecting 
                the culture of today’s Hindus, both in India and throughout 
                the rest of the world. 
                 
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             Q.9 
                How does the 
                mandir help to create and maintain faith in God? 
                  
                   
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                Faith 
                in God - Faith may perhaps be the most essential element 
                of the spiritual path. Without faith, one is unable to sustain 
                one’s belief system. Without faith, a spiritual aspirant 
                is unable to even accept the existence of God. One of the greatest 
                influences that the mandir may have on society is in its role 
                as a symbol of faith in God. Just as the experience of a university 
                increases an individual’s positive inclinations towards 
                education, the experience of the mandir increases an individual’s 
                faith in God. 
                A mandir is a place which through its natural activities inspires 
                many pious people to do a variety of spiritual things. It inspires 
                individuals to work at becoming better people. It inspires people 
                to pray to God. Naturally, when many religious people engaged 
                in a variety of spiritual activities are seen at mandirs, society’s 
                faith in God consequently increases. 
                 
                The spiritual elevation of the individual  
                Another meaningful spiritual impact that the mandir has on society 
                is its impact on the individual. The mandir enhances the spiritual 
                progress of the individual. To understand this, we first need 
                to examine what spiritual progress is. 
                According to the Vasudev Mahatmya, a section of the Mahabharat, 
                the spiritual progress of an individual can be measured through 
                how much four components have been imbibed in the individual’s 
                life. These four components are dharma (righteousness), gnan (knowledge), 
                vairagya (detachment), and bhakti (devotion). In the Hindu scriptures 
                and in the Swaminarayan Sampraday, this is considered to be a 
                quotient of spiritual progress for any aspirant.  
                 
                Dharma 
                Dharma is righteousness, or the practice of discretion between 
                right and wrong. To decide what is right and what is wrong, we 
                as humans naturally turn to a superhuman source of guidance, God. 
                In Hinduism, the scriptures are heeded as the word of God. They 
                are our encyclopedia of rights and wrongs.  
                The Swaminarayan mandir enhances one’s observance of dharma 
                by providing an environment which facilitates observing these 
                scriptural tenets. All of the devotees of the Swaminarayan mandir 
                strive to strictly follow these tenets. As a result, any individual 
                who regularly participates in the mandir’s activities is 
                also inspired to do so. Secondly, these tenets are also emphasized 
                in spiritual discourses regularly given at the mandir. Listening 
                to these discourses would inspire one to imbibe these tenets as 
                one understands their importance.  
                 
                Gnan  
                Gnan is true knowledge. According to Bhagwan Swaminarayan, true 
                knowledge is to understand that one is the atma, which is pure, 
                eternal, and separate from one’s mortal and perishable body. 
                In the Shikshapatri, Bhagwan Swaminarayan has clearly stated to 
                His followers that the essence of all of the scriptures and the 
                ultimate means to salvation is to believe one’s self to 
                be the atma and worship Paramatma (God).  
                The mandir helps the individual to imbibe this true gnan through 
                scriptural readings and spiritual discourses. The Vachanamrut 
                and the Swamini Vato are the two basic scriptures of the Swaminarayan 
                Sampraday. They discuss the pitfalls and challenges that one may 
                face on the spiritual path and essentially better one’s 
                understanding of true spiritual knowledge. These two as well as 
                many other scriptures are regularly discussed, collectively studied, 
                and discoursed upon at all Swaminarayan mandirs.  
                In addition, the individual undergoes many practical experiences 
                by participating in the mandir’s activities. For example, 
                suppose that one is working on a given project at the mandir. 
                As the case in any work or volunteer environment, one’s 
                efforts may not bear their desired fruits or one’s advice 
                or opinions may not be heeded or accepted. As a consequence, one’s 
                feelings may be hurt or one’s ego may be humbled – 
                none of which should happen to one who has perfect gnan, or realization 
                of the atma. With a little introspection, these practical experiences 
                allow the individual to gauge his spiritual level and attempt 
                to enhance his or her imbibing of gnan. 
                 
                Vairagya 
                Vairagya is detachment from the world. The mandir helps one imbibe 
                vairagya. The mandir offers the individual a setting where one 
                can forget his or her world and concentrate solely on God. The 
                unparalleled peace and happiness one experiences through participating 
                in religious activities and projects done with the purpose of 
                pleasing God, helps one build a conviction that there is more 
                happiness to be derived from God than from any material or worldly 
                entity. Thus, the mandir aids the individual in imbibing vairagya. 
                 
                Bhakti 
                Bhakti is devotion to God. There are wide variety of rituals that 
                the individual can participate in at the mandir that enhance the 
                observance of bhakti. The following are just a few of the various 
                forms of devotional worship that can be found in all Swaminarayan 
                mandirs.  
                
                 Forms 
                  of Devotional worship at the Swaminarayan Mandir 
               
              
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                    Arti is the devotional waving of divas to the murtis of God. 
                    When one either performs or does darshan of the performance 
                    of the arti and listens to words of the arti being sung, one 
                    naturally remembers with devotion, the glory of God. 
                 
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                    Thal is the devotional offering of food to the deities. While 
                    thal is being sung and offered to God, one can imagine oneself 
                    to be personally offering savory dishes to God. 
                 
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                    The murtis of God are also dressed with shrungar, or traditional 
                    and beautiful clothes, ornaments, and garlands. Doing darshan 
                    of the deities dressed with shrungar and remembering this 
                    darshan is yet another devotional form of worship.  
                    The darshan of devotionally awakening and putting to sleep 
                    the murtis of God also allows the individual to imagine that 
                    he or she is personally present in the service of God.  
                 
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Devotional 
                    songs are also sung before the deities to help one remember 
                    His divine and extraordinary deeds. Other devotional songs 
                    describing the divine form and shrungar of God are also sung. 
                    All of these and many more devotional forms of worship help 
                    one to enhance one’s individual relationship with God 
                    and thus enhance the observance of bhakti. 
                    Spiritual direction 
                    Lastly, the mandir provides the individual with spiritual 
                    direction. One essential element to spirituality is clarity 
                    of one’s beliefs. After one develops faith that there 
                    indeed is a God, the next logical step would be to find out 
                    who that God is. What is His name? What are His characteristics? 
                    Does He possess a form? Is He the root cause of all happenings? 
                    Is He God Supreme or are there other gods comparable to Him? 
                    This understanding of God and His qualities is termed upasana 
                    in Hinduism.  
                    In the Vachanamrut, Bhagwan Swaminarayan has said, “For 
                    the sake of preserving upasana, I have relaxed the emphasis 
                    on renunciation and have built mandirs of God.” (Vachanamrut 
                    Gadhada II-27) In the Swaminarayan Sampraday, Bhagwan Swaminarayan 
                    has initiated the building of mandirs for this specific purpose. 
                    Through their murtis and natural activities, these mandirs 
                    serve as an anchor for upasana. Because of mandirs, upasana 
                    escapes alteration and corruption over the span of time. Mandirs 
                    remind the followers of the Swaminarayan Sampraday that there 
                    is one God who is God supreme; that God is all-powerful and 
                    ever-present; that God does indeed possess a form; and that 
                    this God is ever present on this earth through a succession 
                    of God-realised sadhus.  
                         
                 
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              Q10 
                How does the 
                mandir help a family?  
                A.  
                The individual’s affiliation with the mandir is often family-based. 
                The influence of the mandir accompanies him or her into the home. 
                Normally, family members are also involved and influenced by the 
                mandir. Many families will sit together and often discuss issues 
                involving the mandir and its activities. Family prayer sessions 
                as well as having a common system of beliefs and mode of worship 
                also help unity and intra-family understanding.  
                The mandir community is itself just a family of families. As a 
                result, the environment of the mandir allows one family to mingle 
                with and learn from many other highly functional and cohesive 
                families. 
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                 How does the 
                mandir help individuals? 
                A. A hectic routine 
                packed with work tensions and idealistic ambitions, imperfect 
                relationships, and demanding family stresses, leaves the average 
                individual with an ardent craving for answers to life’s 
                unlimited questions; the most burning being: “How can I 
                attain peace of mind?” Sometimes the individual may turn 
                to alcohol, substance abuse, crime, gambling, or other such vices, 
                helplessly in search of peace. Many genuine efforts are also made, 
                such as recreational activities, days off, or retreats. The magnitude 
                of society’s concern can be seen through government efforts 
                such as national parks or amusement parks. Ultimately, these often 
                prove to reap benefits that are short-lived.  
                The mandir offers a refreshing tranquility to such an individual. 
                Through its natural teachings and activities of prayer and worship, 
                the mandir generates devout faith in God and in fellow man and 
                guides the individual towards spirituality. With this new found 
                faith in God, the individual embraces physical, mental, and spiritual 
                purity. The teachings and natural activities of the mandir offer 
                the individual an understanding that peace of mind does not lie 
                in addictions and other such vices. They mould the character of 
                the individual by endowing basic virtues of humanity such as fidelity, 
                courage, forgiveness, unity, friendship, honesty, humility, tolerance, 
                understanding, patience, charity, and universal brotherhood. Thus, 
                the mandir also plays an indirect role in improving society by 
                improving the state of the individual. 
                 
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