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Introduction
In this section, a selection of Vachanãmrutas are given for
helping children, youths, the aspirant and those experiencing crises
at some time during their lives.
Shriji Mahãrãj was a natural teacher. His teaching techniques
were based on understanding the human psyche. His outstanding attribute
was that He loved humanity, whether : young or old, rich or poor,
learned or ignorant, man or woman, householder or sãdhu, a
devotee or non-devotee. His teachings addressed the type of people
sitting before Him.
Guiding
Parents to Inspire Children :
Mahãrãj has not given direct
instruction for children in the Vachanãmrutam, but through
His own likings and behaviour when He was young, we learn a great
deal which can be applicable to children. There are a few Vachanãmrutas
in which Mahãrãj directly holds a dialogue with young
devotees. In Vadtãl 10, Mahãrãj is asked a question
by Bhagubhãi of Bhãdran. From oral transmission we learn
that Bhagubhãi was a twelve year old boy, who had been instructed
by his mother to pose such a question about how a Jiva can be redeemed.
In Gadhadã II. 62, Mahãrãj is asked a question
by each of His nephews - Ayodhyãprasãdji and Raghuvirji
Mahãrãj, who were only fifteen years old at the time.
In Gadhadã III. 18, Raghuvirji Mahãrãj poses
a very subtle question to Mahãrãj about the nature of
the Jiva in the waking and dream states.
The following Vachanãmrutas will be inspiring for children
:
- Gadhadã I. 10, the main
concept to grasp is how and under what conditions Mahãrãj
served Sevakrãm. (Refer details in the next section for
youths, No.7, Sevã)
- In Sãrangpur 2, Mahãrãj
commands us :
Not to inflict pain by speech on any living creature.
This means not to use foul or abusive language which can hurt
a person. But the associated meaning of "not inflicting physical
pain" should automatically be understood as well. Practically,
this means that children should not meaningfully hurt or tease
small creatures such as insects, nor pelt higher animals such
as cats and dogs with stones; nor physically beat one's siblings
or friends.
- In Kãryãni 3, Mahãrãj
relates His childhood virtues - of detachment, non-taste and performing
austerities. These are the virtues which can be cultivated by
the young on a simpler level. For instance in detachment : Children
should try to share little things like sweets, toys and books
with friends and relatives, thus subduing possessiveness.
In non-taste : they should happily accept food items made by mother,
without fussing or quarrelling. They should not be stubborn.
In austerities : Children can be inspired in two ways to please
Shriji Mahãrãj and Pramukh Swãmi Mahãrãj
: -
(i) by avoiding one's favourite food item, to control the
sense of taste and thus making the Ãtmã stronger.
This is a subtle form of tapas.
(ii) Yogiji Mahãrãj used to be extremely
pleased on children who observed nirjalã (waterless) Ekãdashi.
For those who are unable to do this, Pramukh Swãmi Mahãrãj
advocates eating only farãri food items on the day of Ekãdashi
and to strictly avoid the non-farãri foods. During the
holy month of Shrãvan, many children at home and abroad
observe ektãnã - eating normal foods only once a
day and farãri items (ref. Glossary for list.) at other
times of the day.
- In Gadhadã II. 55, Mahãrãj
again talks about His childhood virtues of Bhakti, such as visiting
many mandirs every morning in Ayodhyã, listening to the
divine kathã of God, keeping the company of sãdhus
and visiting holy places - tirthãs.
After leaving home, His virtue of Vairãgya
- detachment emerged, such as wearing only a loin cloth to cover the
body. From this, the young are inspired to avoid extravagance and
to live simply.
Neelkanth's nirbhaytã - fearlessness, helped Him in not being
afraid of wild animals of the forest like lions, elephants and poisonous
snakes. At least this may induce children not to be scared of the
dark or thundering rainstorms, or being squeamish about insects.
His Bhakti in visiting mandirs and sacred places again is worthy of
emulation.
Some aspects in the next section, for youths can also apply to children,
such as respect for elders and parents. Pramukh Swãmi Mahãrãj's
remarks concerning this aspect are also relevant.
In a sabhã of bãlaks, kishores, kishoris and yuvaks
in Edison in 1998, after his coronary by-pass operation, Swãmishri
first looked at the bãlaks and advised about several practical
and important aspects regarding self control, discipline and character:
' By watching sports on the television
we are inspired to exercise. Exercise improves our health. Watching
pictures of violence, people drinking liquor and doing bad things
... that is bad. We should never watch these programmes. ...
We should read Satsang books, learn stories about Yogiji Mahãrãj.
We should always speak the truth. When our parents ask us where
we had gone, we should tell the truth... even when visiting
relatives...'
Excerpt from Pramukh
Swãmi Mahãrãj's blessings
Sat. 19th September 1998.
Edison mandir, New Jersey.
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